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Intentional Peer Support
Peer Support is a system in which two or more people who have similar experiences help each other. This common experience allows for more authentic empathy and support. It is a system founded on key principles of respect, shared responsibility, and mutual agreement of what is helpful. In this relationship, neither person has more expertise as a supporter than the other. It is one of equality. This equality arises from the shared experience of emotional and psychological pain. Through mutual empowerment, the idea that each person is taking responsibility for their own recovery. The helping is mutual. A sense of community can be rebuilt and stigmas associated with mental illness can be overcome.
The critical ingredients for peer support are as follows: The support must be voluntary and free from coercion. It is consumer run and directed. The setting is informal and flexible to the needs of the participants. There is no hierarchy; no one is more qualified, advanced, or better than anyone else. The approach is non medical; it is not our task to assess or evaluate each other, but only to say what we see and offer our own practical knowledge. In taking this non-medical approach we no longer create outsiders. We share rather than “handle” our situations.
These key concepts are what make peer support such a unique experience in comparison to the more traditional approaches to mental health. The goal here is to create the ideal helping relationship. Together, we embrace the knowledge that crisis can be transforming, that mutually supportive relationships provide necessary connection, and that new contests offer new ways of thinking about our experiences. Out of this, we build mutually respectful relationships in which we can challenge, support, and learn from each other. Through these relationships, we begin to develop self awareness, we begin to understand change and learning not as an individual process but as a community effort in which we work together . Peer support gives individuals the opportunity to feel a part of the big picture rather than a piece of the puzzle that just does not seem to fit. Resources: Peer Support: what Makes it Unique? Shery Mead and Cheryl MacNeal Defining Peer Support
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